When the Naughty Step Makes Things Worse
- Rae Sabine

- 12 minutes ago
- 1 min read
When the Naughty Step Makes Things Worse is a practical and compassionate guide for parents, carers, and professionals supporting children who are highly sensitive to pressure. The authors explain how strategies like time out, sticker charts, or consequences can increase stress and oppositional behaviour in children who feel overwhelmed. The book reframes these challenges with understanding, showing that resistance often comes from pressure rather than defiance.
The book clearly describes what pressure sensitivity is and how it shapes everyday interactions. Fisher and Fricker provide examples where traditional discipline escalates conflict and offer alternative approaches that reduce pressure while supporting a child’s sense of autonomy. The writing is accessible and grounded, giving adults practical guidance while validating the child’s feelings and experiences.
When the Naughty Step Makes Things Worse works well in homes, classrooms, and therapy rooms where adults want to respond more sensitively. It offers strategies that promote connection, calm, and cooperation rather than control. The book encourages adults to create environments where children feel safe, seen, and understood, making it a compassionate guide for anyone seeking a gentler and more effective approach.
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